The truth is that guys don't always know what to do with a fickle and temperamental woman. And if they aren't prepared to deal with these emotions, it might lead to breakups and arguments that never stop.
As a matter of fact, guys are also prone to a wide range of emotions, and they can be difficult to get along with at times.
However, coping with a partner who is exceptionally gloomy can quickly spiral out of control. What is the most effective technique to deal with a scenario in which your partner is behaving in an irritable manner?
Realize how helpless you are when it comes to managing your girlfriend's feelings. Actually, it's impossible to ever master other people's emotions. Even when it comes to controlling their own emotions, some individuals are completely out of control.
Taking your girlfriend's mood swings as evidence that she's insane is quite uncouth of you. Also, let her know that she deserves to be worthy of controlling her own emotions. She shouldn't constantly rely on you to "fix it" when she's feeling down.
You don't have to share your girlfriend's feelings. Say her dissatisfaction doesn't have to affect yours. Manage your moods. Far easier said than done. However, your outlook on life will help her improve. Try to keep positive even when she's upset. Use your positivity to improve her mood.
Your partner may have strong moods that affect you. Particularly when she lashes out or blames you. Avoid taking it personally and talk to her when she's more receptive. It's fine to speak up. Don't insult her in this talk.
Setting boundaries doesn't imply giving her a start-and-stop button to express her feelings. It implies you must tell her what is and is not okay. Tell her you love her in all her moods, but don't accept whatever she throws at you out of wrath and frustration.